[Nodelocal DNS cache] Mount host /run/xtables.lock in nodelocaldns container (#4074)

* Mount host /run/xtables.lock in nodelocaldns container

* fix typo in nodelocaldns daemonset manifest yml

* Add prometheus scrape annotation, updateStrategy and reduce termination grace period

* fix indentation

* actually fix it..

* Bump k8s-dns-node-cache tag to 1.15.1 (fixes https://github.com/kubernetes/dns/issues/282)