containerd: change default resolvconf_mode to host_resolvconf (#8247)

* containerd: change default resolvconf_mode to host_resolvconf

* Wait for kube-apiserver to come back after pod refresh

* Handle resolv.conf gracefully

* Retain currently configured DNS entries to ensure we don't break the resolvers

* Suse uses wickedd for network management so no dhcp hooks

* Molecule: increase ansible timeout

* CI: Increase ansible timeout to 120s for Packet jobs