Upcloud: Add possibility to setup cluster using nodes with no public IPs (#11696)

* terraform upcloud: Added possibility to set up nodes with only private IPs

* terraform upcloud: add support for gateway in private zone

* terraform upcloud: split LB proxy protocol config per backend

* terraform upcloud: fix flexible plans

* terraform upcloud: Removed overview of cluster setup

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Co-authored-by: davidumea <david.andersson@elastisys.com>