Upgrade ansible-core to 2.16.4 (#10984)

* upgrade ansible version

Needed for with_first_found to work correctly:
https://github.com/ansible/ansible/issues/70772 fixed in 2.16

* Remove unused google cloud cloud_playbook

* Fix dpkg_selection on non-existing packages

Needed since ansible-core>2.16, see:
https://github.com/ansible/ansible/commit/f10d11bcdc54c9b7edc0111eb38c59a88e396d0a