* rename ansible groups to use _ instead of -

k8s-cluster -> k8s_cluster
k8s-node -> k8s_node
calico-rr -> calico_rr
no-floating -> no_floating

Note: kube-node,k8s-cluster groups in upgrade CI
      need clean-up after v2.16 is tagged

* ensure old groups are mapped to the new ones

This replaces kube-master with kube_control_plane because of [1]:

  The Kubernetes project is moving away from wording that is
  considered offensive. A new working group WG Naming was created
  to track this work, and the word "master" was declared as offensive.
  A proposal was formalized for replacing the word "master" with
  "control plane". This means it should be removed from source code,
  documentation, and user-facing configuration from Kubernetes and
  its sub-projects.

NOTE: The reason why this changes it to kube_control_plane not
      kube-control-plane is for valid group names on ansible.

[1]: https://github.com/kubernetes/enhancements/blob/master/keps/sig-cluster-lifecycle/kubeadm/2067-rename-master-label-taint/README.md#motivation

* Fix upgrade playbook name

* Fix my fix :)

* update documentation to add and remove nodes

* add information about parameters to change when adding multiple etcd nodes

* add information about reset_nodes

* add documentation about adding existing nodes to ectd masters.

* Gather just the necessary facts

* Move fact gathering to separate playbook.

* Add document about adding/replacing a node

* Update nodes.md

Amend for comments