Calico enable support for eBPF (#7618)

* Calico: align manifests with upstream

* allow enabling typha prometheus metrics

* Calico: enable eBPF support

* manage the kubernetes-services-endpoint configmap

* Calico: document the use of eBPF dataplane

* Calico: improve checks before deployment

* enforce disabling kube-proxy when using eBPF dataplane
* ensure calico_version is supported